《道德情操论·卷六·论德性的品质·三·论自制》第22节

道德情操论 · 第43章 · 第22节

It is otherwise with the man of excessive self-estimation. The wise men who see him the nearest, admire him the least. Amidst the intoxication of prosperity, their sober and just esteem falls so far short of the extravagance of his own self-admiration, that he regards it as mere malignity and envy. He suspects his best friends. Their company becomes offensive to him. He drives them from his presence, and often rewards their services, not only with ingratitude, but with cruelty and injustice. He abandons his confidence to flatterers and traitors, who pretend to idolize his vanity and presumption; and that {226} character which in the beginning, though in some respects defective, was, upon the whole, both amiable and respectable, becomes contemptible and odious in the end. Amidst the intoxication of prosperity, Alexander killed Clytus, for having preferred the exploits of his father Philip to his own; put Calisthenes to death in torture, for having refused to adore him in the Persian manner; and murdered the great friend of his father, the venerable Parmenio, after having, upon the most groundless suspicions, sent first to the torture and afterwards to the scaffold the only remaining son of that old man, the rest having all before died in his own service. This was that Parmenio of whom Philip used to say, that the Athenians were very fortunate who could find ten generals every year, while he himself, in the whole course of his life, could never find one but Parmenio. It was upon the vigilance and attention of this Parmenio that he reposed at all times with confidence and security, and, in his hours of mirth and jollity, used to say, 'Let us drink, my friends: we may do it with safety, for Parmenio never drinks.' It was this same Parmenio, with whose presence and counsel, it had been said, Alexander had gained all his victories; and without his presence and counsel, he had never gained a single victory. The humble, admiring, and flattering friends, whom Alexander left in power and authority behind him, divided his empire among themselves, and after having thus robbed his family and kindred of their inheritance, put, one after another, every single surviving individual of them, whether male or female, to death.

注释摘要

斯密在此处将笔锋转向过度自我评价之人,探究这一类人内心深处的戏剧性困境。他所描摹的不是一个静态的性格类型,而是一段从受人尊敬走向自我毁灭的动态过程。过度自我评价之人有一个致命的感知错位:那些最了解他、最接近他的智者,恰恰是因为看得太清,反而给予他最节制的尊敬。因为智者所依据的是那种精确合宜的完美标准,他们所给予的评价自然远远低于此人对自己那种膨胀的估量。这…